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The internet has done an amazing job of providing a plethora of information, quotes, threads, hashtags on self-care. However, Self-love is a topic that we don’t hear nearly enough about.

February is the month of love. We have Valentine’s Day coming up and on the 13th the international day of self-love. There are plenty of Valentine’s day gift guides out there geared towards couples but you’re about to read one that’s for you no matter your relationship status.

Self-love no matter your relationship status

It seems like half of the population loves Valentine’s Day, as the day to be extra romantic and dress up for  date night. While the other half scuffs at a holiday dedicated to loving your significant other. For the former, the idea of spoiling their partner brings a smile to their face. While the latter, let’s call them Grumpy Cats, are the ones who remind the world how stupid it is because “Valentine’s Day should be every day!” Huff. Puff. Huff.

While I agree that love should be celebrated every day no matter your relationship status. I also am not mad at people for enjoying this day of love and doing they’re thing. This is coming from a girl who didn’t have a boyfriend until college. When I did start dating pizza on the couch was good enough for me.

So the question is, why you mad?

If you don’t care about Valentine’s day then you should at least care about February 13th, the international day of self-love!

So if you’re single, recently single, in a situation-ship, or it’s just another day then this self-love gift guide is for you. If you are in a new or well-established relationship then this self-love gift guide is also for you.

I have collected a few things that you, you and your partner, can spoil themselves and feel a little extra love.

 

 

Chocolates are nice, soft lips are better. I take care of my lips throughout the seasons but I give them extra TLC during the winter. What I love about Moroccan Magic is that their lip balms are ultra hydrating, made from organic argan and essential oils. So not only are my lips always chapped free (and kissable)  but I’m giving myself a little aromatherapy with each application.

 

 

Noise canceling headphones for those times when you want to tune out the world or meditate without interruption.

 

 

 

If you are a light sleeper like me, live in a busy area, or have a partner that SNORES like mine then get yourself a White Noise Machine. Not only has this made falling asleep and staying asleep so much easier, but it has also saved my relationship. KIDDING..kinda. But seriously, always invest in sleep.

 

 

The warm light clip-on reading lights are perfect for those nights when you’re not ready to fall asleep just yet but don’t want any bright lights on because it will make you too alert or potentially disturb your bedmate. 

 

 

 

Who says new underwear is only worn to be shown off?

 

My favorite weekend outfit is something stretchable, soft, and hides grease stains. If I’m the mood maybe I’ll show a little leg.  #ootd

You can find these shorts set and lingerie nightdress at Shein.com

 

 

 

Pinky Promise rings are the Perfect Galentine’s Day gift for yourself or your besties. FredandfarInstagramm page is self-love heaven. Their Self- love pinky ring is your reminder that self-love comes first.

 

 

So If you find yourself pulling a grumpy cat with every V-day related content you see, do yourself a favor and love yourself extra. Dig deep to why you’re so upset.  When 2/13 and 2/14 rolls around, eat your favorite dinner, put on something that makes you happy, and if your missing out on getting a package or box that night then you know you’ll have something waiting for you at your doorstep soon…

 

Be your own valentines.  No matter the day, show yourself love.

 

With love,

Dani